Selflessness is not really being careless about oneself, but the inward ability to give up one`s own interests to please others. Its some thing many persons do without necessarily thinking about; seen especially in lovers and parents to their children. Its easier to be selfless when we are just denying ourselves from enjoying something or some activity. But how easy is it to be selfless when we are putting our selves in danger?

If its so good to be true, flee!

I had an “opportunity” to be tried on this very common scenario. Frankly there are very few opportunities of getting some thing without effort or getting a really good item at a very low cost. Some years back,I bought a second hand car at a “give away price” . It looked good and totally clean. On seeing it while I drove, my workmate thought it was new and would not believe that it was a second hand vehicle.

The car gave me the worst problems I have ever encountered with  a car. I probably spent half the buying price making repairs on it.

It may be any thing; a  house, an educational course, anything! Please don`t get me wrong. There still exist good affordable priced items/services. One just has to be extra careful.

Many examples can go for people. Use extra judgement when dealing with extremely generous strangers or cunning individuals.

Do you have any experiences with things being so good to be true? Let`s learn from each other.

Pleasant words heal

The uniformity of challenges  encountered by all of us can be used to our advantage; there is almost no knew challenge anyone faces; any challenge we face today has likely been faced by someone else before! Of course the fine details change. But there is almost no new challenge  to human species. Through persons around us, God provides solutions to all our challenges.By coming together to share our experiences , we can offer easy to find help for each other`s day to day challenges.

Today`s healing tip: Demonstrate an act of kindness or love to some one you have resented for some time because of what they did . You will be amazed at what healing you will get. Please let us know how this show of love has changed your day today. E.g. Smile and be the first to greet your husband or wife in the morning after a disagreement the day before, or prepare them a cup of coffee before they leave for work!